Sunday, August 28, 2011

Polyandry Place: How Can Polyandry Work? .... published by Melinda

Polyandry Place: How Can Polyandry Work?  I have not had too many negative things said to me about my relationship with 2 men. In my personal life only a very few people know our arrangement...

See Melinda's full venue page at:
http://www.hotwifelove.com/poly_hotwife_melinda.htm




Monday, March 28, 2011

Black? White? BBC? Racism?

Hotwifing can at times include what are usually termed as "Interracial" encounters.  Especially with the Hotwife Lover being "black" and the Hotwifing Couple "white".  "Black" men are often touted as being sexually superior and better endowed than "white" men.  I thought I'd take a moment to express some views and ideas on this.


Pardon me for getting a little technical here. There are a couple of definitions that are constantly being thrown around that are really misnomers. The first one(s) being "BLACK & WHITE". Assuming we are talking about "black or white" as colors (pigments), using the "subtractive color theory"... I have never seen an actual "black" person. I have only seen folks that have varying shades of "brown". Some "dark brown" and others "light brown", and even others "very dark or light brown". On that same note, I have never (other than possibly Albino) seen a "white" person. I have only seen folks with varying degrees of a "tan" skin color, from "very light tan" to "very dark tan"... even "brown".

Why am I making these almost obvious statements? The answer is because the second misused term is "RACE". The last I checked we are all of the human race. The race of man and woman. BTW the word woman came about when the first man saw his wife... he said "WOH MAN.... IS SHE A HOT WIFE!"... sorry for the bad humor... But really, the very fact that we consider "different races" is do to antiquated Darwinian/Evolutionary teachings, stating that we evolved differently, in different categories, classes or "races". In actuality, the differences in our skin color, eye shape, lip size, hair, muscularity, body types, and even possibly certain personality traits, etc, come down to very, very small differences in our DNA makeup, caused by variations in the available gene pool for each area. There are really no different skin colors... rather only differences in the amount of melanin causing the varying shades of apparent skin pigmentation. Some have more melanin, thus brown or dark brown, and some have less, thus tan, light tan, or even Albino (an extreme or complete lack of melanin).

Simply put... if two dark skinned people procreate, you tend to end up with dark skinned offspring. Likewise if two light skinned people procreate, you most often end up with light skinned offspring. If you have an area where the gene pool is made up of mostly dark skinned people, you end up with a population of mostly dark skinned people... even if there are some light skinned people in the area. It's just a matter of what traits are present in the available gene pool for that area. If the entire earth's gene pool was located in one area, you would most likely end up with a well distributed mix of all the genes, resulting in a world population with very similar features.



That being said, I have no problem with someone using the term "black" or "white", especially in the context we are using here. I do have a problem when someone on the news specifies a person's skin color with no useful purpose, such as "a black man killed a white woman today"... I hate when they say that, as it proliferates division. I believe that in general, the majority of so called "black" men in the US, tend to be more dominant, muscular, sexual... but not because of skin color, but rather the fact that they are from areas of strong dominant gene pools, including melanin. I also think that cultural factors come into play that can account for certain traits.  It's not to say that "white" men don't have these qualities as well, but it's just sort of a statistical analysis of the population, and a generalization.

All of the "black" folks I know are very nice, intelligent people, not gangsters (as pop culture wants to portray). Most of them are also very dominant and muscular indeed. I look at that as a good thing. My gene pool wasn't so lucky LOL. I also believe that the BBC endowment concept is not exclusive, but generally true indeed... at least in the United States. There are also many areas on the earth where dark skinned people originate from. We tent to think of all "black" people as African Americans. That's not the case. Many are from other areas.... Yet we are all of the same original race!

As much as I dislike racism, I believe there is unfortunately at least a little racism ingrained in all of us (regardless of our skin tone), because of the way we were raised and taught improperly. Christians, Jews and Muslims for that matter, are supposed to know and believe that we are all of the same offspring, but that is not taught as truth in most churches, synagogues, or mosques anymore. People of these faiths are also supposed to understand that we all had access to the same total original gene pool until the confusion of languages and cultures at the Tower of Babel.

To all this I say, I love it when I see a "black" man with a "white" woman, especially a another "white" man's wife! It's not a degrading thing, but a rather to me a submission to a most likely, more dominant male, as well as a recognition of the great qualities that many "black" men have in their genetic makeup.



Call people what color you like, but know the truth about there being only ONE RACE!

Friday, March 11, 2011

A Ghost on Twitter? A Matchmaker Ghost?

Is this an idea for a TV show?... or is it a Real Ghost trying to find a man for His Wife?


Full Posting
http://www.hollywoodhotwives.com/drama.htm

Twitter Tweets
http://twitter.com/matchmakerghost

Discussion

I'd like your thoughts!  Please comment or join the discussion forum!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

An Idea for a Hotwifing Drama Series!

Here's an idea for a continuing series about a brand new hotwifing couple who's wife falls in love with her lover!

http://www.hollywoodhotwives.com/drama.htm

Please leave your comments and your own ideas here... or join us on the forum board!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

The Perfect Gift For a Man!

Fun for both of you!

As we approach this busy shopping season... Please check out this idea I came up with for suggesting a gift from your wife to you!


I hope you like it!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

A New Website: HOT WIFE LOVE!

We've started a new website: Hot Wife Love to focus more heavily on the "emotionally involved" aspects of hotwives, husbands, and their lovers.

Imagine that your wife was to fall in love, or at least have real strong feelings for a man.  How would this effect your thoughts about hotwifing?  To some this is a desirable thing, while others fear this as "something gone wrong".

As a Hotwife, do you desire to just let go and fall, or at least feel strongly for other men?  There are so many possibilities to Hotwife relationships, and this is just one of the deepest subjects to look into.

We will be adding to the website over time, so please bookmark it with our other websites for future updates.

Very close to Polyamory... Hot Wife Love can be a wonderful way to cap off a Hotwifing experience... getting beyond just the physical, into the deep areas of a new exciting relationship!

Friday, November 5, 2010

New! Hotwifing World Chat Room

I've setup a new Chat Room for generic use.  It's very easy to use.  Just register and start chatting. It's a great way to chat anonymously with multiple people.

If you have friends, and wish to discuss Hotwifing, or similar topics, just sign on and start talking.  If you are already a member of our Forum Board, it would be helpful to pick the same username you used there, or similar.  It's also a great tool to use if you are listed on our Hotwife Connect website.

I'll also post the times on the chat room calendar of when we will have scheduled discussions.

Register today!  Looking forward to chatting with you!

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

New Blog Started - Sharing Hotwife

We have started a new: Sharing Hotwife - Blog to cover some of the more advanced topics of hotwifing that we post on our Sharing Hotwife website.

This Hotwifing 101 blog will remain as is and continue cover most of the beginning aspects of hotwifing... while the new Sharing Hotwife blog will cover aspects that are too heavy for this blog.

Please subscribe to both of these blogs so that you can know when we make updates to either website.

We will always continue to strive for a classy, mainstream approach to Hotwife Sharing on all of our Hotwifing World websites!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Fetish, Fantasy, or Fact of Lifestyle?

After finally finishing the initial infrastructure of the Hotwifing World websites,  I had time to sit down and write this new topic for the Hotwifing 101 website:

Fetish, Fantasy, or Fact of Lifestyle?

Feel free to post your comments!

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

New!!! "Hotwifing World" Website

HOTWIFING WORLD

I've been spending some time trying to organize all our websites into a logical hierarchy.... and in so doing, I ended up purchasing a new domain (www.hotwifingworld.com).

Although "Hotwifing 101" is our main theme and our niche focus, the "Hotwifing World" domain will now be kind of the over all index that will suffice as "the" main page that links off to all our other websites, blogs, channels, social sites, etc.  This should simplify finding all of our sites, etc.

If you bookmark www.hotwifingworld.com, you should be able to access any new additions to our network of websites, and other web media.

Our Current Websites and other Web Networking Sites Include:


Website Domains... owned and run by us:
www.hotwifingworld.com
(Over all index domain for all sites, blogs, networking)
www.howifing101.com
(For all beginners in the hotwifing scene, but a "real info/no fantasy" site)
www.sharinghotwife.com
(For info that's just a little more hardcore than 101, and many resource links)
www.hotwifeconnect.com
(A new website for posting listings of hotwife couples and interested men)
www.hotwifeconnection.com
(A general list of places to make real life hotwife connections)

Interactive Networking Sites... run by us:
www.hotwifing101.com/forum
(Hotwifing World - Forum Board for interactive talk)
www.facebook.com/people/Ru-Hotwifing/100001490712426
(My/Our Facebook Page)
www.youtube.com/user/hotwifing101
(Our generic YouTube video channel)
www.hotwifing101.blogspot.com
(Our generic Blog)

Please make it a point to support our websites and networking sites, simply by joining our forum board, commenting on blogs, emailing us, referring us, or linking to us.

Talk to you soon!

Monday, October 18, 2010

A Brand New Concept for Hotwife Connections

We've started a new FREE website www.hotwifeconnect.com.

The purpose of this website is to provide a classy place for Hotwife Couples and Available Men to post their information.

It is all done discretely and in conjunction with our Forum Board, for actually making contact and getting to know each other first.

No one gets your email, or any other contact information. When you put a listing on the Hotwife Connect website, interested users will only have a general idea of your location, for possible local hookups.  The only way for someone to contact you is through our Forum Posts and Forum Private Messaging.

The Hotwife Connect Forum is only open for posting by those with listings on the Hotwife Connect website, so you can spend time posting topics and private messaging in a monitored environment.  It's a great way to get to know people in your area, without committing to a real life meeting.  We will remove anyone who is abusive or a jerk.

Another good thing about this format is that people may find you by searching the web for hotwives or hotwife lovers in their area, and sign up just to get to know you.  You may even get to know people in locations that you travel to on business or vacations.

The vision of this website is like our other websites... to continue providing more mainstream, classy ways of presenting Hotwifing to the general public without all the hardcore material that is present on most websites.

The Hotwife Connect website is new, so it will take some time to build up interested members, but it is all FREE, so post a listing soon.  First come, first served (top listings) in your area!

Thanks!

Monday, October 11, 2010

Men's Roaming Eyes and Brains!

I was just thinking yesterday about my motivation for hotwifing and sharing my wife.  I think it goes hand in hand with our inability to stop from looking when we see a hot woman.  Even though we are married or attached, we can't help but gazing at a hot woman, even if it is out of the corner of our eye.

Since my interest was piqued in sharing my wife, whenever I see a hot woman, wearing hot clothes, or anything that stands out attractive about her... I imagine my wife in that role.  For some reason I now transfer those thoughts that would have been previously wandering thoughts, to fantasizing about my wife turning my head and others.  It actually draws me to focus more on my wife than in the past.

I may write an article about it sometime, or I welcome other's to write  about it, and I'll post it on the Hotwifing 101 website.

Just a random thought I had yesterday, but it seems to make sense to my way of thinking.

I would like to know your thoughts?

Also, we have started a new Forum... http://www.hotwifing101.com/forum for those interested in some conversation.

Thanks for reading.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Wednesday, September 22, 2010